Not Me Monday

Welcome to Not Me! Monday! This blog carnival was created by MckMama. You can head over to her blog to read what she and everyone else have not been doing this week.


It is my seventh wedding anniversary today. I am in total disbelief as to how many years have gone by, and so quickly too I might add. Its not me that once in awhile wishes that we could go back to those care free days of going out on a whim, not having to scramble for a sitter. I would also never anger my husband on the eve of our anniversary over something foolish that I did over the weekend. Nope, not me.

This particular foolish thing that I did, may not seem so foolish to other people but to my husband it was very foolish and hurtful. I would never go out to a party with friends from work and come home at two in the morning, nope not me! And while out at this party text a former coworker that my husband would wish I rather not text, nope not me. Then when I got home my hubs checked my phone and found all the texts. Now, don't get me wrong, my relationship is strictly platonic with this former coworker but nonetheless my hubs disapproves. Now, on a day that we should be celebrating, we are not speaking. I would never admit that this bothers me to no end that he feels betrayed yet I still feel that I didn't do anything really wrong, not me.

Hopefully he will get over this act of betrayal in time to celebrate the past seven years of marriage with me this evening when he gets home from work. If not at least he'll probably get over it by the eighth one right? I would never try to use my feminine wiles at an attempt to win him over and remind him why he married me in the first place, nope not me!

Wish me luck!